Friday, October 30, 2009

Hearts away


NOTE: If you find this post disturbing or you hate it, dont bother leaving a comment or commenting in my cbox because this post was written by my own opinion. But if you do like it, COMMENT LAR. xD haha





Relationships


I got this post idea while taking my shower and clearing my head
because SOMEONE is moving to switzerland, I thought of stuffs and I came out this idea.
So here are stuffs to have a good and lost lasting relationship:


1.Commitment

- Being committed to each other is the no.1 most important thing if your aiming for a healthy long relationship. If your not committed to the other party, you are more likely to fall for another person and dumping your loved one. If you cant decide if you wanna be committed to that person. then dont bother going into a relationship.

-Try trusting each other and promised to be committed, this adds up point to the relationship and you will slowly grow.


2.Trust

-No matter what type of relationship your having, every relationships need trust to each party. If one party end up accusing another when it's a false accuse, the other party will find it annoying and chances of you breaking up the relationship. Do trust each other no matter where you are, how you feel or what you think.

-Texting each other when your away from each other does help to build the trust. Sharing problems or even random stuffs would be giving a message to the other party that you do trust them. ;)

3.Fights

-Dont be scared about fights when your in a relationship. If both of you do trust each other, fights actually do help you to build up your relationship and get to know more about your partner, for example probably he hates you talking about hair all day, you then will know that it would annoy him and will keep it mind. Remember, no relationship is perfect, every relationships will have fights

-If you were in the wrong and he/she said sorry first, it means that he/she is scared to lose you. But though this type of relationships will also get into fights. Because no relationship is perfect as I repeat. ;)

4.Being Open to the world

-Is your bf/gf hiding your identity from his friends? Is so, this may mean that he/she does not want anyone knowing he/she's with you. This kind of relationships is most likely to fall apart. So guys/girls, do be open and tell the world that you are proud to love this person, it would kill, but if you trust him/her, its better to share to the world than hiding it at the corner.

-Still no? try asking him/her why, if he/she says that he/she dosent want to let any of his/her friends know, this means that either the other party likes someone elses and dosent want his friends telling that person that your partner is with you or your partner does not want to be humiliated, dump that kind of person.



so again if you find this post disturbing, go away. (:
I'm done, having bad flur

xoxo,
bell

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